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heart of riku
02-02-2007, 05:09 PM
i just broke up with a girl and she keeps asking me out...how can i say im not interested with out hurting her feelings?

Kairi
02-02-2007, 08:37 PM
Hmm..this may sound obvious, but you should just be honest with her. Tell her straight off that you aren't interested, don't lie or it'll be a whole lot worse. You'd better get her alone, though. There's nothing more embarrassing than being rejected infront of all your friends lol.

Aerith
02-02-2007, 08:40 PM
This is a pretty tough situation because no matter how you let her down she's going to get hurt. The only advice I can give is to be straight with her. Don't give her any false hope but don't be mean about it. That'll just make her feel worse.

Riku
02-02-2007, 08:41 PM
Two problems come to mind. Firstly, if you 'get her alone' you'll probably be leading her on. Secondly, she's still being rejected, and as heart of riku says, he doesn't want to hurt her feelings. It's a tough one.

heart of riku
02-04-2007, 07:22 PM
riku your kinda rubbing it in lol but dont worry about it

DragoonKain
02-04-2007, 10:56 PM
Tell her to go away. Not interested.

kairi8424
02-04-2007, 11:02 PM
thats really mean,you have to be nice to girls

Tidus
02-04-2007, 11:03 PM
Tell her you guys are just friends.

Twilight Dragon
02-04-2007, 11:04 PM
I had the same problem before... Just tell her straight off not interensted and if she still tries to keep asking you out just ignore or stay away from her for awhile...


And either way your probably going to hurt her feelings...

Luffy
02-04-2007, 11:06 PM
Change your phone number and say you moved to alaska.

Twilight Dragon
02-04-2007, 11:14 PM
Change your phone number and say you moved to alaska.

lol.... or you could do that...

Luffy
02-04-2007, 11:19 PM
yeah that would totally work

Axel_Fire_Wheel
02-04-2007, 11:34 PM
get off josh before I hurt you

Sora
02-04-2007, 11:39 PM
Just be honest with her. Tell her you like her as a friend, and you prefer to stay like that.

Axel_Fire_Wheel
02-04-2007, 11:42 PM
The alaska thing would still work though

Truth Seeker
02-04-2007, 11:59 PM
Being honest is your best bet. After that, just avoid her for a while. And if you do see her, try not to talk to her much if at all possible.

Tyas
02-05-2007, 03:12 AM
If she confront's you just say you don't have the same feeling's you use to when you were together. And tell her (If she realy liked you) there's someone better for her and that she'll find him some day. This go's for you also ( when looking for your future wife). There's alway's something better for you. When a relationship dosent work alway's remember .If that person was wonderful to be with ,wait till you meet the true love of your life ,the one you marry. Say this to her, and remember this for yourself.

lonbilly
02-05-2007, 10:47 PM
oh yeah that so helps me with the person I like, we probaly wont even be together like forever:(

kingdom keeper
02-05-2007, 10:48 PM
Dang dude thats tough:confused:

Sora Keyblade Master
02-06-2007, 01:29 AM
That's easy tell her what happened and why don't you why to have a serious relationship now.

heart of riku
02-06-2007, 06:54 PM
wow guys thanks for all the advise! i like the aslaska idea!

snow
04-11-2007, 04:10 PM
just say not interested but we can still be friends :)