theres this person....

[lonbilly]

theres this person who I like but this person is one of my friends What do I do?

[kairi8424]

tell them how you feel

[lonbilly]

I can't,..hes a guy

[Superstar]

Hmmm......a really close friend? :)

[kairi8424]

o!okay well then,hmmmm has he shown any signs that he like you?

[lonbilly]

im not sure, he says that he always wants me to stay after school with him and he always hangs out with me.

[kairi8424]

ok,well maybe he likes you!

[lonbilly]

Id hope so:D , but I doubt it:(

[Superstar]

Why not?:D :) :D :)

[kairi8424]

why do you say that?

[kh2fan]

lonbilly are u a girl or boy because if your a boy then im backin out on givin advice...

[lonbilly]

im a boy

*kh2fan backs out on giving advice*

[Riku]

Do you have any idea if this guy is also homosexual?

[lonbilly]

no but people think he is.

[kh2fan]

im a boy

*kh2fan backs out on giving advice*

yup ive backed out...

[Riku]

Fair enough - I can only suggest hanging out with him more to make sure, or just asking him straight out. It depends on what he's like lol

[Superstar]

So you are ummmm....Well hey I have girlfriends but we are just friends.

[lonbilly]

asking him would be bad for me cuz then he wouldn't be my friend probaly and i cant tell if he is or not, i dont have a gaydar

[Tyas]

yup ive backed out...
Im joining you!!!

[kairi8424]

So you are ummmm....Well hey I have girlfriends but we are just friends.

same with me!lol

[kh2fan]

lonbilly no offence but gay people scare the crap out of me... not meaning you but the gay dudes at my school..

[Superstar]

So you are gay? It's okay I just don't know any one that is it's kinda a weird experience. lol

[Riku]

Hmm, it would be a gamble lol - Then all I can think of is that you keep hanging out with him. If you're good friends, then the friendship bond should get stronger anyway over time.

lol One of the more amusing rules of the site - No homophobia, people!

[kairi8424]

wow!this is super weird

[lonbilly]

So you are gay? It's okay I just don't know any one that is it's kinda a weird experience. lol

yes i am dododo

[Riku]

I apologize, lonbilly, that all of these people seem to be backing out of attempting to help you at all. They should be ashamed :rolleyes:

[kairi8424]

hey lonbilly ill still help you if you want me to

[Superstar]

I'm sorry. I'll help too. :)

[SilentShadowSouls]

Right okay this is a messed up one cause you don't know if he's into u or if he's even into guys. first of all does he know ur gay? or do ya think that'll freak him out if u do? cause you know that could make it well easier to find out if he is as well.

[heart of riku]

ok,lonbilly im with you all the way...just tell him how you feel dont be scared of all the stick you might get-i got it when i went out with someone you will learn to live with it

[heart of riku]

wow i have 2 gay friends on 2 different forums cool!

gha! crap did i just double post?

[Enoch]

Get out of the closet.
You'll feel better, sure.
Take care of your bottom.

[Aerith]

Is there anyone who knows your situation who could perhaps find out for you whether he is or isn't gay?

[Riku]

Or even someone who doesn't know your situation who you could subtley get to find out whether he's gay?

You: "Do you think he's gay?"
Other Person: "Maybe, I don't know"
You: "I challenge you to find out!"

Just an idea lol

[Jess]

lol, Riku. I don't understand Homophobia .. anywho. I think you should take him aside and tell him; if he's a true friend he'll tell you what he thinks and he should still be your friend atleast.

[Helix: The True Hero]

I agree with Jessixx

[Axel_Fire_Wheel]

well nice to see you guys again... I think

[YeyKairi_x]

I think people just need to back off one another now. There is nothing wrong with being gay - it's who a person is and you people can't change that. Fact.

I think it's brave of lonbilly to come here to ask for advice but the fact that some people have "backed out" of this topic just because it's about some poor bloke's sexuality. It's ridiculous! People need to grow up about these things.

Anyway...

lonbilly: Like Jessixx said before, tell your friend exactly how you feel. If he's really your friend he shouldn't care about your sexuality if things don't turn out the way you want them to.

[Tidus]

Tell him the truth and if he dosent like it find another friend.

[kingdomheartsjunkie]

excalty what every1 else has been saying

go for it tell your friend exactly how you feel

[Aerith]

Ionbilly, I was just wondering how things are going? Have you taken up any of this advise?

[kingdomheartsjunkie]

yeah that is a good question hav u tried or is it on the bottom of ur to do list

[Oblivion XIII]

I say try it!

You have a chance so see what happens!

But take everone eles ideas into account!

[Soul Of Destiny]

Or even someone who doesn't know your situation who you could subtley get to find out whether he's gay?

You: "Do you think he's gay?"
Other Person: "Maybe, I don't know"
You: "I challenge you to find out!"

Just an idea lol

Haha Riku you'r lame.
Well, i've had about 5 or 6 boyfriends, maybe i can help.
Ionbilly send me a PM and ill give you some advise.

[uLtiMaTe-DaRkNeSS]

i just had a good idea.. lol it's kinda dumb though..ask one of ur guy friends
to ask for you. then you'll know how he feels.. or u can do it urself

[Chaser's Apprentice]

theres this person who I like but this person is one of my friends What do I do?

Okay...that's not right! Don't ask him/her out (what sex are you?) if he/she's your friend, BIG MISTAKE

[Luxoran]

Okay...that's not right! Don't ask him/her out (what sex are you?) if he/she's your friend, BIG MISTAKE

Okay. Sorry to say, but that was just flat out mean.